Carlos Xuma
Dating coach and tips author for men
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Also coaches | Health coach |
| Based in | United States |
Carlos Xuma is a dating coach and author who gives dating advice to men. He teaches guys how to get a girlfriend and how to attract women. His content covers mistakes that kill attraction, having a clear reason when approaching a woman, and breaking the touch barrier. He shares his tips through videos, articles and a newsletter.
What Carlos helps with
Carlos helps men who want to meet women and start a relationship. He focuses on what to avoid and how to approach with respect.
- Getting a girlfriend
- Avoiding behaviors that kill attraction
- Telling confidence apart from arrogance
- Having a clear reason when approaching a woman
- Breaking the touch barrier early
- Avoiding the friend zone
Background and qualifications
- Author of long-running dating tips for men
- Publishes dating advice videos and articles
- Sends a newsletter with dating tips
Carlos Xuma pricing
Programs and services
- Free newsletter with dating tips
- Dating advice videos
Carlos Xuma reviews
The CoachVouch take
His advice centers on avoiding common mistakes, such as vulgarity and arrogance, more than on learning tricks.
Best for men who want simple, respectful advice on approaching women and starting a relationship.
Common questions
How much does Carlos Xuma charge?
Coaching with Carlos runs $100 to $150 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Carlos Xuma help with?
Carlos Xuma helps with getting a girlfriend, avoiding behaviors that kill attraction, telling confidence apart from arrogance and having a clear reason when approaching a woman.
What does Carlos Xuma teach about approaching women?
He teaches that a man needs a clear reason when he approaches a woman. He says sleazy pick-up lines show a lack of respect.
How do I contact Carlos Xuma?
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