Zen Dating Coach
Dating and relationship coach for divorced men over 40
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $200 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Based in | United States |
Zen Dating Coach is a dating and relationship coach who helps people find, build and keep long term relationships. The coach started this work after a divorce in 2007, following four years of marriage. Years of study in psychology, spirituality and dating, plus mentoring and coaching others, shaped the method. It covers the whole path from before the first date to life as a committed couple. Coaching centers on each client's own relationship goals.
What Zen helps with
Zen Dating Coach works on finding a lasting relationship and keeping it healthy over time. The focus runs from the time before a first date through married life.
- Finding a successful long term relationship
- Keeping a relationship strong over time
- Avoiding the mistakes that lead to divorce
- Getting ready before a first date
- Building a relationship that brings ease to both partners
Background and qualifications
The coach divorced in 2007 after four years of marriage. That loss led to years of research into what makes relationships last. The research included books on psychology, spirituality, dating and relationships, and work with mentors who offered new ways to approach dating. The coach also coached others toward their dating goals and dated while applying what was learned. These pieces came together into one method that covers the path from before the first date to lifelong partnership.
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Programs and services
- Free consultation
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The CoachVouch take
Built a relationship method from personal divorce experience, covering everything from before the first date to long term marriage.
Best for people who want a lasting relationship and want to avoid repeating past relationship mistakes.
Common questions
How much does Zen Dating Coach charge?
Coaching with Zen runs $100 to $200 an hour. Message Zen from this page for an exact quote.
What does Zen Dating Coach help with?
Zen Dating Coach helps with finding a successful long term relationship, keeping a relationship strong over time, avoiding the mistakes that lead to divorce and getting ready before a first date.
How do I contact Zen Dating Coach?
Send Zen a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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