
Kat Spiwak
Dating and relationship coach for men and women in Toronto
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $250 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Dating for menDating for womenApproach anxiety and confidenceDating after divorceCouples and marriageConfidence and self-esteemLife transitions |
| Works with | Men and Women |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Toronto, Ontario, Canada |
| Practice | Dating Essentials |
Kat Spiwak, also known as Kateryna, is a dating and relationship coach in Toronto, Canada. She runs Dating Essentials and coaches men and women on dating, social skills and relationship building. Her clients include people who rarely date, people starting over after a breakup and people who date but do not get the results they want. She has designed her own process for building dating skills.
What Kat helps with
Kat helps clients get more dates, feel at ease around people they like and build healthy relationships. She also works on the fears and habits that hold them back.
- Social anxiety and shyness around dating
- Fear of rejection
- Starting over after a relationship ends
- Learning why you date the wrong people
- Changing limiting relationship patterns
- Communicating in an assertive way
- Handling triggers and conflicts with a partner
- Checking long-term compatibility
Who Kat works with
Kat coaches both men and women. Some clients have little or no dating experience and deal with shyness or social anxiety. Others have dated often but fear rejection. Some are starting over after a relationship ended and are not sure how to get back into dating.
Background and qualifications
Kat has coached men and women on interpersonal skills and relationship development for many years. She built her own process to teach the skills needed for lasting romantic relationships. Her site also covers self-confidence, assertiveness and single life fulfillment.
Kat Spiwak pricing
Programs and services
- Dating and relationship coaching
- Interpersonal skills development
- Self-confidence and assertiveness coaching
- Single life fulfillment coaching
- Free consultation
Kat Spiwak reviews
The CoachVouch take
Best for men and women with little dating experience, or those starting over, who want stronger social and dating skills.
Common questions
How much does Kat Spiwak charge?
Coaching with Kat runs $80 to $250 an hour. Message Kat from this page for an exact quote.
What does Kat Spiwak help with?
Kat Spiwak helps with social anxiety and shyness around dating, fear of rejection, starting over after a relationship ends and learning why you date the wrong people.
Does Kat Spiwak work with people who have never dated?
Yes. She works with clients who have little or no dating experience, including those with shyness or social anxiety.
Does Kat Spiwak offer a free consultation?
Yes. She offers a free consultation.
How do I contact Kat Spiwak?
Send Kat a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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