Ariella Serur
Dating coach for queer, trans and non-binary people
| Hourly rate range | $75 to $145 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | LGBTQ+ |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Credentials | Two life coaching certifications; Yoga Teacher Training (RYT-500); Graduate Advanced Certificate program at Columbia University in Sexuality, Women, and Gender (in progress) |
| Practice | Queer Dating Coach |
Ariella Serur runs Queer Dating Coach and helps queer, trans and non-binary people date with less fear. Ariella holds two life coaching certifications and a 500 hour yoga teacher training. They are studying sexuality, women and gender at Columbia University with a focus on LGBTQ issues. Ariella came to dating from musical theatre and once went on a date for every audition. They now offer select sessions through a waitlist.
What Ariella helps with
Ariella helps clients move through fear in dating and enjoy meeting people. Success means connection and self-worth that does not hinge on a yes.
- Moving through fear of rejection when asking someone out
- Making dating fun and fulfilling
- Separating self-worth from whether someone wants a second date
- Role-playing conversations before asking someone out
- Handling difficult conversations while dating
- Staying present and open on dates
Who Ariella works with
Ariella works with queer, trans and non-binary people who want to date better. Their site also speaks of dating that is fun and fulfilling in its own right, not only a search for a partner.
Background and qualifications
Ariella graduated from college in musical theatre and started dating as much as they auditioned, to get past fear of rejection in both. Dating has been their main hobby for six years, and friends have long asked them for advice. They hold two life coaching certifications and a Yoga Teacher Training (RYT-500 hours). They are now in a Graduate Advanced Certificate Program at Columbia University's School of Psychology in Sexuality, Women, and Gender, with a concentration in LGBTQ Issues.
Ariella Serur pricing
Programs and services
- Select coaching sessions by waitlist
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The CoachVouch take
Ariella is a queer coach who trained in musical theatre and studies LGBTQ issues in a Columbia University graduate program.
Best for queer, trans and non-binary people who want to face fear and enjoy dating.
Common questions
How much does Ariella Serur charge?
Coaching with Ariella runs $75 to $145 an hour. Message Ariella from this page for an exact quote.
What does Ariella Serur help with?
Ariella Serur helps with moving through fear of rejection when asking someone out, making dating fun and fulfilling, separating self-worth from whether someone wants a second date and role-playing conversations before asking someone out.
Is Ariella Serur certified?
Ariella Serur lists: Two life coaching certifications; Yoga Teacher Training (RYT-500); Graduate Advanced Certificate program at Columbia University in Sexuality, Women, and Gender (in progress).
Does Ariella use pickup artist tactics?
No. Ariella rejects pickup methods and teaches genuine interest and transparency instead.
Is Ariella taking new clients right now?
Ariella offers select sessions and has a waitlist. Social media posting and the newsletter are paused.
How do I contact Ariella Serur?
Send Ariella a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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