
Wendy Mather
Virtues-based life coach in California
| Hourly rate range | $130 to $190 an hour |
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| Also coaches | Parenting coach and Spiritual coach |
| Based in | California, United States |
| Credentials | Certified Life Coach; Master Facilitator, The Virtues Project (2007); Prior Learning Assessment and Recognition (PLAR) practitioner |
| Practice | VirtuesCoach |
Wendy Mather is a life coach in California who helps people stop people pleasing and build confidence. She uses The Virtues Project, and has worked with it for over 20 years. She became a Master Facilitator in 2007. She also taught social service courses at Loyalist College in Belleville, Ontario. Her work centers on helping clients name their character strengths, called virtues, and put themselves first.
What Wendy helps with
Wendy works with people who focus on their faults and wear themselves out pleasing others. She helps them see what is right with them and act from their strengths.
- Moving from people pleasing to putting yourself first
- Getting clear on your character strengths
- Building confidence
- Exhaustion from pleasing others
- Overeating, drinking or heavy phone scrolling used to cope
- Negative self-talk and self-judgment
How Wendy works
Wendy builds her coaching on The Virtues Project and its Five Strategies. Clients learn to name their character strengths, called virtues. She also runs group sessions called The Vibe in the Hive. Groups look at what a virtue is, how it feels, what action it inspires and what results it creates.
Background and qualifications
Wendy has been involved with The Virtues Project for over 20 years and became a Master Facilitator in 2007. She offers workshops on its Five Strategies. She worked as a social service worker and part-time professor. At Loyalist College in Belleville, Ontario, she taught Community Development and Group Process, Principles of Adult Learning, Program Design, and Portfolio Development. She is a Prior Learning Assessment and Recognition practitioner. Since January 2013 she has written, edited and advised for The V Channel, a nonprofit for people who care for children. She is also a yoga instructor and a journeyman beekeeper.
Wendy Mather pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one life coaching
- Free 20 minute consultation
- Group sessions (The Vibe in the Hive)
- Workshops on The Five Strategies of The Virtues Project
Wendy Mather reviews
The CoachVouch take
Wendy is a Master Facilitator of The Virtues Project and builds her coaching on it.
Best for people who please others to the point of exhaustion and want to act from their own strengths.
Common questions
How much does Wendy Mather charge?
Coaching with Wendy runs $130 to $190 an hour. Message Wendy from this page for an exact quote.
What does Wendy Mather help with?
Wendy Mather helps with moving from people pleasing to putting yourself first, getting clear on your character strengths, building confidence and exhaustion from pleasing others.
Is Wendy Mather certified?
Wendy Mather lists: Certified Life Coach; Master Facilitator, The Virtues Project (2007); Prior Learning Assessment and Recognition (PLAR) practitioner.
Does Wendy Mather offer group sessions?
Yes. Her group sessions, called The Vibe in the Hive, explore what a virtue is, how it feels, and the action and results it creates.
How do I contact Wendy Mather?
Send Wendy a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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