Pamela Gort
Dating and relationship coach for lesbian women
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $160 an hour |
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| Focus areas | |
| Works with | LGBTQ+ and Women |
| Also coaches | Health coach and Life coach |
| Based in | United States |
| Credentials | Certified Relationship Coach; Rapid Coach Academy certified; Confident Coach certified; Certified Health Coach; Trained in Mental Fitness |
| Practice | The Lesbian Love Coach |
Pamela Gort is The Lesbian Love Coach. She coaches lesbian women on finding a partner and keeping the relationship strong. She worked 30 years in Pharma and Biotech before she moved into coaching. She also volunteered 5 years on a crisis counseling hotline. She offers one on one and group coaching. She hosts the weekly Lesbian Love Podcast and writes a monthly column as The Lesbian Dating Expert.
What Pamela helps with
Pamela helps lesbian women get into a relationship and stay in one. She works on clarity, dating skills, confidence and the beliefs that hold clients back.
- Getting clear on what they want in a partner
- Meeting women and getting great dates
- Keeping a relationship strong once it starts
- Building confidence in self image and flirting
- Handling issues that come up when living together
- Releasing doubts, fears and limiting beliefs
- Healing from wounds left by past relationships
Who Pamela works with
Pamela works with lesbian women who find it hard to start a relationship or stay in one. Some carry hurt from past relationships. Some want to date with more confidence. Others want to keep an existing relationship going strong.
How Pamela works
Pamela teaches tools called Instant Miracle and the Peace Process. They help clients reach a centered, neutral place where solutions become clear. She also uses Mental Fitness training in her coaching. Clients get clear on what they want in a partner, build strategies to meet her, and work through blocks and limiting beliefs. She coaches one on one and in group programs.
Background and qualifications
Pamela spent 30 years in Pharma and Biotech. She then returned to coaching, first with business clients and now with relationship clients. Her interest began when she volunteered 5 years on a crisis counseling hotline in Delaware and Texas, where she learned active listening. She trained under Christian Michelson. She is certified in Relationship Coaching, Rapid Coach Academy and Confident Coach. She is also a certified Health Coach and trained in Mental Fitness.
Pamela Gort pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Group coaching programs
- Free breakthrough session
- Downloadable e-book on finding and keeping a lesbian relationship
- Podcast
Pamela Gort reviews
The CoachVouch take
Pamela focuses only on lesbian dating and relationships and hosts her own podcast on the topic.
Best for lesbian women who want to find a partner and keep the relationship strong.
Common questions
How much does Pamela Gort charge?
Coaching with Pamela runs $100 to $160 an hour. Message Pamela from this page for an exact quote.
What does Pamela Gort help with?
Pamela Gort helps with getting clear on what they want in a partner, meeting women and getting great dates, keeping a relationship strong once it starts and building confidence in self image and flirting.
Is Pamela Gort certified?
Pamela Gort lists: Certified Relationship Coach; Rapid Coach Academy certified; Confident Coach certified; Certified Health Coach; Trained in Mental Fitness.
Does Pamela Gort offer group coaching?
Yes. She does one on one and group coaching. She also plans to start in-person workshops.
Does Pamela Gort coach only lesbian women?
Her work centers on lesbian dating and relationships. Her programs are built for lesbian women.
How do I contact Pamela Gort?
Send Pamela a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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