Alex
Dating anxiety coach for nerds and introverted singles
| Hourly rate range | $75 to $145 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men and Introverts |
| Credentials | Healthy Gamer certified coach |
| Practice | Date Like A Nerd |
Alex is a dating anxiety coach for nerds. He runs Date Like A Nerd and helps nerdy and introverted singles find a relationship without dating apps or cold approaches. He is a Healthy Gamer certified coach. He has interviewed hundreds of nerds about how they met their partners, and he uses what he learned in his coaching. He also hosts a podcast and a Discord community.
What Alex helps with
Alex helps nerdy singles who know what to do but get stuck when it is time to act. He focuses on building steady habits and a social circle where dates can happen.
- Dating anxiety
- Not knowing where to meet people
- Quitting after frustrating attempts at dating
- Making friends but not getting dates
- Finding a relationship without dating apps
- Finding a relationship without cold approaches
- Breaking dating into small, manageable steps
Who Alex works with
Alex works with nerdy and introverted singles. Many have a routine of work, gym and home, and have little social life. Some know the advice already but freeze when they try it. Others make friends but never meet potential dates.
How Alex works
Alex teaches a friends-first approach. His research found that most nerd couples did not meet on dating apps, and 70% of them started as friends. In coaching, he breaks finding a partner into small steps. He helps clients find or build communities where future partners spend time. He also helps clients learn from setbacks so they do not spiral.
Background and qualifications
Alex is a Healthy Gamer certified coach. He built his dating coaching around research. He has interviewed hundreds of nerds to learn how they found love. He shares what he learned through a free Nerd Dating Guide, relationship skills lessons, and the Dating Coach for Nerds podcast. He also runs a Discord where nerds still dating can talk with those who found a partner.
Alex pricing
Programs and services
- Free intro call
- Free Nerd Dating Guide
- Discord community
- Podcast
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The CoachVouch take
Alex builds his coaching on interviews with hundreds of nerds about how they really met their partners.
Best for nerdy or introverted singles who want a relationship without dating apps or cold approaches.
Common questions
How much does Alex charge?
Coaching with Alex runs $75 to $145 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Alex help with?
Alex helps with dating anxiety, not knowing where to meet people, quitting after frustrating attempts at dating and making friends but not getting dates.
Is Alex certified?
Alex lists: Healthy Gamer certified coach.
Does Alex teach cold approaching or pickup?
No. Alex helps clients find love without dating apps or cold approaches. He teaches a friends-first approach instead.
Who is Player 2 Unlocked for?
It is for nerdy and introverted singles who know what to do but get stuck acting on it. Alex gives them support to take steps and keep going.
How do I contact Alex?
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