Three Day Rule

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Three Day Rule is a matchmaking company that pairs singles with a personal matchmaker and a dating coach. The team screens matches based on goals, values and lifestyle. Matchmakers also look for singles in person, in places like yoga classes, on Instagram and at cocktail parties. Clients work with dating coaches to get date ready. The company serves singles in cities across the United States, including Austin, Chicago, New York and Seattle.

What Three helps with

Three Day Rule helps singles who are tired of dating apps and want quality dates with vetted matches. It also helps clients build confidence and a healthy relationship.

  • Skipping dating apps and meeting quality matches
  • Finding matches that fit your goals, values and lifestyle
  • Getting date ready with a dating coach
  • Showing up confidently on first dates
  • Identifying your needs in a relationship
  • Building a healthy, lasting relationship

How Three works

Each client gets a personal matchmaker and a dating coach. The team screens potential matches against the client's preferences, such as goals, values and lifestyle. Matchmakers approach singles in person and online to find candidates. Dating coaches work with the client to refine dating skills before the dates. After matches are made, the team helps the client identify needs and build a healthy relationship.

Background and qualifications

  • Matchmaking service with local teams in Austin, Boston, Chicago, Dallas, Houston, Los Angeles, Miami, Orange County, New York, Philadelphia, San Diego, San Francisco, Silicon Valley, Washington DC and Seattle
  • Reports 250k+ relationship-ready singles
  • Reports a 92% client satisfaction score

Three Day Rule pricing

Hourly rate range
$90 to $150 an hour
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Programs and services

  • Personal matchmaker
  • Dating coaching
  • Vetted match introductions
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The CoachVouch take

Matchmakers approach singles in places like yoga classes, on Instagram and at cocktail parties to find matches for clients.

Best for singles who want to skip dating apps and be introduced to vetted matches with coaching support.

Common questions

How much does Three Day Rule charge?

Coaching with Three runs $90 to $150 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.

What does Three Day Rule help with?

Three Day Rule helps with skipping dating apps and meeting quality matches, finding matches that fit your goals, values and lifestyle, getting date ready with a dating coach and showing up confidently on first dates.

Does Three Day Rule offer dating coaching as well as matchmaking?

Yes. Each client is paired with a personal matchmaker and a coach. Dating coaches help clients get date ready and show up with confidence.

How do I contact Three Day Rule?

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