
Three Day Rule
Matchmaking and dating coaching company with offices in many US cities
| Hourly rate range | $110 to $250 an hour |
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| Based in | United States |
Three Day Rule is a matchmaking company that also offers dating coaching to singles. Talia Goldstein is the founder. Each client gets a personal matchmaker and a coach. The team has over 50 dating and relationship experts. Matchmakers screen matches by goals, values and lifestyle. Recruiters search for singles in places like yoga classes and cocktail parties. The company works in many US cities, from Austin to Seattle.
What Three helps with
Three Day Rule helps singles who want to skip dating apps and meet screened matches. It also coaches clients on how they show up on dates.
- Meeting vetted matches without dating apps
- Getting date ready with dating coaching
- Choosing photos that fit the match you want
- Building a dating strategy around your needs
- Planning first dates with a concierge
- Finding a match with shared values and goals
How Three works
Each client is paired with a personal matchmaker and a coach. Matches are screened for goals, values, lifestyle and more. Coaches help clients refine dating skills before, during and after a date. Recruiters search the country for matches. A concierge helps plan dates. Services differ by package.
Background and qualifications
Talia Goldstein founded Three Day Rule. The company has a team of over 50 dating and relationship experts. It keeps a network of over 250k relationship-ready singles. It has local teams in cities such as Austin, Boston, Chicago, Dallas, Houston, Los Angeles, Miami, New York, Philadelphia, San Francisco, Seattle and Washington DC. It also serves clients nationwide.
Three Day Rule pricing
Programs and services
- Personal matchmaker and dating coach
- Introductory packages
- VIP memberships
- Free network of potential matches
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The CoachVouch take
Every client gets a personal matchmaker and a dating coach, backed by a team of over 50 relationship experts.
Best for singles who want screened matches and dating coaching in one service.
Common questions
How much does Three Day Rule charge?
Coaching with Three runs $110 to $250 an hour. Message Three from this page for an exact quote.
What does Three Day Rule help with?
Three Day Rule helps with meeting vetted matches without dating apps, getting date ready with dating coaching, choosing photos that fit the match you want and building a dating strategy around your needs.
Does Three Day Rule offer a free option?
Yes. Singles who are not ready for a premium membership can apply to join a free network of potential matches.
How do I contact Three Day Rule?
Send Three a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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