Michel Grey
Relationship coach for LGBTQ and queer women who carry too much
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $170 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | LGBTQ+ and Women |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Credentials | Conscious Girlfriend certified coach |
| Practice | Relational Sovereignty Coaching |
Michel Grey is a relationship coach who runs Relational Sovereignty Coaching. Michel helps people who feel they carry too much of a relationship, including lesbian and queer women in dating. The main offer is a 75-minute one-on-one session called Relational Field Mapping. It looks at the pattern under a single conflict. Michel also hosts a podcast called Relational Field Radio and is a Conscious Girlfriend certified coach.
What Michel helps with
Michel works with people who explain, smooth over and organize things in relationships that do not meet them halfway. The work covers dating, family, work and group settings.
- Feeling like the one who carries the whole relationship
- Being told you are too sensitive when you notice a real problem
- Knowing what is yours to handle and what is not
- Deciding whether to speak up, ask, pause, pull back or leave
- Setting boundaries, roles and clearer agreements
- Repeating the same conversation with no change
- Over-explaining and feeling less clear afterward
Who Michel works with
Michel works with people who are tired of being the one who notices problems, explains them and carries the context. Their concerns show up in dating, family, work or community. Michel also lists LGBTQ dating for lesbian and queer women as a focus.
How Michel works
The main session is called Relational Field Mapping. It runs 75 minutes, one on one. Michel and the client look at the pattern under the latest text, fight, dating situation or work problem. They separate what belongs to the client from what was handed to them. Then the client decides what to offer, ask for, change or stop carrying. Michel also teaches how to pause the urge to over-explain.
Background and qualifications
Michel Grey is a Conscious Girlfriend certified coach. Michel runs Relational Sovereignty Coaching and creates content on relationships, emotional labor, boundaries, mutuality and accountability. This includes a podcast called Relational Field Radio and a written series called Field Notes.
Michel Grey pricing
Programs and services
- 75-minute Relational Field Mapping session
- Relational Field Radio podcast
- Field Notes writing
Michel Grey reviews
The CoachVouch take
Michel treats a client's sense that something is off as useful information, and looks at the conditions around the client, not only the client's habits.
Best for people who over-explain and over-give in relationships and want to decide what they will stop carrying.
Common questions
How much does Michel Grey charge?
Coaching with Michel runs $100 to $170 an hour. Message Michel from this page for an exact quote.
What does Michel Grey help with?
Michel Grey helps with feeling like the one who carries the whole relationship, being told you are too sensitive when you notice a real problem, knowing what is yours to handle and what is not and deciding whether to speak up, ask, pause, pull back or leave.
Is Michel Grey certified?
Michel Grey lists: Conscious Girlfriend certified coach.
What is Relational Field Mapping?
It is a 75-minute one-on-one coaching session. It looks at the pattern under a current problem and helps you decide what to offer, ask for, change or stop carrying.
How do I contact Michel Grey?
Send Michel a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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