Michel Grey
Relationship coach for LGBTQ and queer women, Conscious Girlfriend certified
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $140 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | LGBTQ+ and Women |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Credentials | Conscious Girlfriend certified coach |
| Practice | Relational Sovereignty Coaching |
Michel Grey is a relationship coach who works with people who feel they carry too much of the load in their relationships. Michel is a Conscious Girlfriend certified coach and focuses on lesbian and queer women. The practice is called Relational Sovereignty Coaching. Its main offer is Relational Field Mapping, a 75-minute session. Michel also hosts Relational Field Radio and writes Field Notes on relational patterns in couples, work, family and community.
What Michel helps with
Michel helps people who feel they do the most work to keep a relationship, group, workplace or family going. The focus is on seeing the pattern and deciding what to stop carrying.
- Feeling like you carry most of the relationship
- Being blamed for naming a problem
- Seeing the pattern beneath a current conflict
- Separating what is yours from what was assigned to you
- Deciding what to offer, ask for, change or stop
- Uneven effort in relationships, work or family
- Telling a real signal from a fear response
Who Michel works with
Michel works with people who notice problems early and end up managing everyone else's feelings about them. These clients often explain, smooth things over and take the harder role. The work covers romantic relationships, and also workplaces, families and communities. Michel's dating focus is lesbian and queer women.
How Michel works
Michel's main tool is Relational Field Mapping, a 75-minute coaching session. It looks at the pattern beneath the immediate problem. Clients separate what belongs to them from what has been handed to them. They then decide what they want to offer, ask for, change or stop carrying.
Background and qualifications
Michel Grey is a Conscious Girlfriend certified coach and runs Relational Sovereignty Coaching. Michel also hosts Relational Field Radio and publishes Field Notes, which explore relational patterns. The work centers on lesbian and queer women in dating and relationships.
Michel Grey pricing
Programs and services
- Relational Field Mapping, a 75-minute coaching session
- Relational Field Radio
- Field Notes
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The CoachVouch take
Michel treats relationship strain as a possible mismatch in the setting, not only a flaw in the person who notices it.
Best for lesbian and queer women who are tired of being the one who carries the relationship.
Common questions
How much does Michel Grey charge?
Coaching with Michel runs $80 to $140 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Michel Grey help with?
Michel Grey helps with feeling like you carry most of the relationship, being blamed for naming a problem, seeing the pattern beneath a current conflict and separating what is yours from what was assigned to you.
Is Michel Grey certified?
Michel Grey lists: Conscious Girlfriend certified coach.
What is Relational Field Mapping?
It is a 75-minute coaching session with Michel Grey. It helps you see the pattern beneath a problem, separate what is yours from what was assigned to you, and decide what to change or stop carrying.
How do I contact Michel Grey?
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