
Marie Murphy
Non-judgmental infidelity coach working one-on-one by Zoom and online course
| Hourly rate range | $90 to $135 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Sessions | Online |
| Credentials | Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality |
Marie Murphy is a relationship coach who works only on infidelity. She helps people who are cheating or having an affair sort out their feelings, decide what they want, and choose what to do next. She holds a Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality and has helped hundreds of people resolve their situations. Her coaching has no shame or blame. She does not push clients toward one outcome, such as stopping the affair.
What Marie helps with
Marie helps people who are cheating or in an affair make clear choices. She works on the guilt, confusion and anxiety that come with infidelity.
- Guilt, shame and anxiety about cheating
- Deciding which relationship to pursue and which to end
- Deciding whether or not to tell someone
- Fear of making the wrong decision and regretting it
- Emotional overwhelm and overthinking
- Getting out of limbo and confusion about an affair
Who Marie works with
Marie works with people who are cheating on a partner, having an affair, or in any situation they think counts as infidelity. Her clients are often stuck between competing wants and feel worn out by the stress of it. Many have tried other professionals and felt judged.
How Marie works
Marie offers private coaching over Zoom. It starts with an introductory session, and the work centers on the details of each client's own situation. She also runs an online course called You're Not the Only One. It uses videos and assignments in a portal open 24 hours a day. Marie helps students apply the tools to their own lives. Her style is systematic but not dogmatic.
Background and qualifications
Marie Murphy is a relationship coach with a Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality. She has helped hundreds of people resolve infidelity situations in ways they feel good about. Her work centers on infidelity alone. She builds her coaching around the view that many professionals carry social bias against people who cheat, and that this bias often leads to help focused only on making the person stop cheating.
Marie Murphy pricing
Programs and services
- Private one-on-one coaching by Zoom
- Introductory coaching session
- Online course: You're Not the Only One
Marie Murphy reviews
The CoachVouch take
Focuses only on infidelity and does not steer clients toward ending the affair.
Best for people in an affair or cheating who want to sort out what they want without being judged.
Common questions
How much does Marie Murphy charge?
Coaching with Marie runs $90 to $135 an hour. Message Marie from this page for an exact quote.
What does Marie Murphy help with?
Marie Murphy helps with guilt, shame and anxiety about cheating, deciding which relationship to pursue and which to end, deciding whether or not to tell someone and fear of making the wrong decision and regretting it.
Does Marie Murphy coach online?
Sessions are online.
Is Marie Murphy certified?
Marie Murphy lists: Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality.
Will Marie try to make me stop cheating?
No. She does not push clients toward any set outcome. She helps you clarify what you want and decide what to do.
Does Marie coach in person?
Her private coaching happens over Zoom. She also offers an online course with videos and assignments.
How do I contact Marie Murphy?
Send Marie a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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