Luke Shillings
Infidelity recovery and relationship coach for people after betrayal
| Hourly rate range | $70 to $125 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakLife transitionsConfidence and self-esteemStress and overwhelm |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
Luke Shillings is a relationship and life coach who helps people recover after infidelity. He works with people who feel lost, angry or ashamed after a partner's betrayal. His main program is the On Purpose Coaching Program, built around weekly 50 minute one-on-one calls. Luke also hosts a podcast on healing after an affair. He went through a partner's affair himself and rebuilt his life, which shapes how he coaches.
What Luke helps with
Luke helps people who are struggling after a partner cheated. He works on the emotional fallout and on rebuilding confidence and daily life.
- Recovering from the shock of infidelity
- Letting go of resentment, anger and shame
- Rebuilding confidence and self-compassion
- Communicating with a partner after betrayal
- Setting clear boundaries in relationships
- Focusing at work while dealing with betrayal
- Stopping habits like over drinking or over eating
- Moving on and planning a new chapter
Who Luke works with
Luke works with people who are hurting after a partner's betrayal. His clients often feel tired, angry, ashamed or afraid. Many struggle to focus at work, lose patience with others, pull away from friends, or find it hard to talk with their partner.
How Luke works
Luke runs the On Purpose Coaching Program. It has weekly 50 minute one-on-one calls. Clients can record their sessions. They get email access at any hour and regular accountability nudges between calls. Luke also offers optional worksheets tailored to each client's needs. He starts with a free 30 minute discovery call that is a no-pressure conversation.
Background and qualifications
Luke is a relationship coach and podcast host who focuses on recovery after infidelity. During that time he deepened his interest in human psychology and looked for answers about why people act as they do. He rebuilt his life and now uses that experience to guide others through betrayal.
Luke Shillings pricing
Programs and services
- On Purpose Coaching Program
- Weekly 50 minute one-on-one calls
- Free 30 minute discovery call
- Optional tailored worksheets
- Podcast on infidelity recovery
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The CoachVouch take
Luke coaches on infidelity recovery after living through a partner's affair himself.
Best for people who feel lost after a partner's betrayal and want weekly one-on-one support.
Common questions
How much does Luke Shillings charge?
Coaching with Luke runs $70 to $125 an hour. Message Luke from this page for an exact quote.
What does Luke Shillings help with?
Luke Shillings helps with recovering from the shock of infidelity, letting go of resentment, anger and shame, rebuilding confidence and self-compassion and communicating with a partner after betrayal.
What happens in Luke's first call?
The first call is a free 30 minute discovery session. It is a no-pressure conversation in a safe, neutral space.
What does Luke's coaching program include?
The On Purpose Coaching Program has weekly 50 minute one-on-one calls. It also includes optional session recordings, email access at any hour, accountability nudges and optional worksheets.
How do I contact Luke Shillings?
Send Luke a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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