Luke Shillings
Infidelity recovery and relationship coach for people hurt by betrayal
| Hourly rate range | $90 to $230 an hour |
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| Also coaches | Life coach |
Luke Shillings is a relationship and life coach who helps people recover after infidelity. He hosts a podcast on healing after betrayal. He lived through his own wife's affair, lost his home, and rebuilt his life. His coaching centers on the On Purpose Coaching Program, which uses weekly 50 minute one-on-one calls. He also offers a free 30 minute discovery session with no pressure.
What Luke helps with
Luke works with people who feel lost, angry or ashamed after a partner cheated. He helps them rebuild confidence and plan what comes next.
- Recovering from the shock of infidelity
- Quieting negative thoughts and self-blame
- Managing anger, resentment, shame and fear
- Communicating with a partner after betrayal
- Setting clear boundaries in relationships
- Focusing at work after a betrayal
- Rebuilding self-care and daily habits
- Closing one chapter and starting a new one
Who Luke works with
Luke works with people who have been betrayed by a partner. Many feel stuck, tired, angry or ashamed. Some struggle to focus at work, lose patience with family, or pull away from friends. He helps them build a plan and move forward.
How Luke works
Luke runs the On Purpose Coaching Program. Clients get weekly 50 minute one-on-one calls. They can record the sessions if they want. Clients also get email access at any hour and regular accountability nudges between calls. Optional worksheets are tailored to each person's needs. The first step is a free 30 minute discovery session.
Background and qualifications
Luke is a relationship coach who hosts a podcast on recovery after infidelity. His interest in coaching grew from personal experience. During that time he deepened his interest in human psychology and looked for answers about why people act as they do. He then rebuilt his life. He also enjoys running and taking on challenges.
Luke Shillings pricing
Programs and services
- On Purpose Coaching Program
- Weekly 50 minute one-on-one calls
- Free 30 minute discovery session
- Optional session recording
- Email access and accountability nudges
Luke Shillings reviews
The CoachVouch take
Luke coaches on infidelity recovery after living through his own wife's affair and hosts a podcast on the topic.
Best for people who feel lost after a partner's betrayal and want weekly one-on-one support.
Common questions
How much does Luke Shillings charge?
Coaching with Luke runs $90 to $230 an hour. Message Luke from this page for an exact quote.
What does Luke Shillings help with?
Luke Shillings helps with recovering from the shock of infidelity, quieting negative thoughts and self-blame, managing anger, resentment, shame and fear and communicating with a partner after betrayal.
What happens in Luke Shillings' first session?
The first session is a free 30 minute discovery call. It is a no-pressure conversation in a safe, neutral space.
Can clients record sessions with Luke?
Yes, clients have the option to record their sessions. They also get email access at any hour.
How do I contact Luke Shillings?
Send Luke a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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