Kelli Murbach
Peer coach for trauma survivors and people who feel out of place
| Hourly rate range | $90 to $175 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men, Women, LGBTQ+, Students, Engineers, Creatives and Neurodivergent adults |
| Also coaches | Spiritual coach and Speaking coach |
| Sessions | Online |
| Credentials | Master of Social Work; International Association of Trauma Recovery Coaching, Advanced; Parts Work Certification (in training); Freedom Folk and Soul Minister of the Healing Arts |
| Practice | Secular Shepherdess |
Kelli Murbach is a coach who supports people who feel they do not fit the mold of normal. She works with trauma survivors, neurodiverse people, artists, engineers, scientists and people in life transitions. She founded Secular Shepherdess and holds a Master of Social Work. She coaches as a peer, not a clinician, and uses a seven domain model called the Life Support Paradigm. Sessions happen on Zoom, weekly or every other week.
What Kelli helps with
Kelli works with people who feel out of place in the world and tire from trying to appear normal. She helps them reclaim parts of themselves they set aside.
- Feeling like you do not belong or fit in
- Exhaustion from masking to appear normal
- Healing from childhood trauma and shame
- Life transitions
- Understanding your needs and how you experience the world
- Marking a change with a ceremony or ritual
- Talking through what is stirring you up right now
Who Kelli works with
Kelli works with artists, engineers and scientists, childhood trauma survivors, LGBTQIA+ people, neurodiverse people, life transitioners, and students over 18. Her support fits people who already see a therapist or counselor, or who have enough stability to do the work.
How Kelli works
Kelli offers a weekly or every other week Zoom call called a Listening Forward Conversation. Clients bring whatever is active for them. She offers an outside view, other ways forward, and pointed questions. She draws on trauma responsive attention, lived experience, and the Life Support Paradigm, a framework with seven domains that helps people see their needs. She does not diagnose or prescribe.
Background and qualifications
Kelli holds a Master of Social Work and an Advanced credential from the International Association of Trauma Recovery Coaching. She is in training for a Parts Work Certification and is a Freedom Folk and Soul Minister of the Healing Arts. In 2018 she began a six year engineering sabbatical. During that time she went through social work graduate school. She founded Secular Shepherdess and runs it as sole proprietor.
Kelli Murbach pricing
Programs and services
- Free 30-minute inquiry call on Zoom
- 60-minute Listening Forward Conversation on Zoom
- Ongoing weekly or bi-weekly Listening Forward sessions
- Nine-week email course on the Life Support Paradigm
- Ceremony or ritual crafting
Kelli Murbach reviews
The CoachVouch take
Kelli pairs a Master of Social Work and trauma recovery coaching credential with a background in engineering and a peer-based approach.
Best for people who feel out of place, have some stability or a therapist, and want a peer to listen and challenge them.
Common questions
How much does Kelli Murbach charge?
Coaching with Kelli runs $90 to $175 an hour. Message Kelli from this page for an exact quote.
What does Kelli Murbach help with?
Kelli Murbach helps with feeling like you do not belong or fit in, exhaustion from masking to appear normal, healing from childhood trauma and shame and life transitions.
Does Kelli Murbach coach online?
Sessions are online.
Is Kelli Murbach certified?
Kelli Murbach lists: Master of Social Work; International Association of Trauma Recovery Coaching, Advanced; Parts Work Certification (in training); Freedom Folk and Soul Minister of the Healing Arts.
What can I do if I only want the framework and not one-on-one sessions?
Kelli offers a nine-week email course on the Life Support Paradigm. It is for people who want the framework without a one-on-one connection.
How do I contact Kelli Murbach?
Send Kelli a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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