Joan Wiseman
Life coach helping women leave affairs with married men
| Hourly rate range | $90 to $175 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Women |
| Also coaches | Dating coach |
| Credentials | Certified Life Coach, The Life Coach School; Certified Life Coach, Life Mastery Institute |
| Practice | Discreet Coaching |
Joan Wiseman is a life coach who helps women end affairs with married men. He runs Discreet Coaching and works with women who feel stuck waiting for a man to leave his marriage. He left a similar situation himself with the help of a life coach, then trained and certified through two programs. His calls are not recorded, and he keeps all sessions private.
What Joan helps with
Joan works with women who are the other woman and want to move on. He helps them stop waiting and build a life of their own.
- Ending an affair with a married man
- Stopping the wait for him to leave his marriage
- Breaking the habit of checking for his messages
- Letting go of the belief that no love will compare
- Ending the stress of keeping lies going
- Handling holidays and special days alone
- Finding love again after the affair
Who Joan works with
Joan coaches women who are in an affair with a married man. Many wait for him to leave, feel let down by broken promises, and are worn out from hiding the relationship. They want to walk away for good and build a full life again.
How Joan works
Joan offers a 45 minute consult call, then private one on one coaching sessions. He does not record calls, and all sessions are private. He uses a judgement-free style and tells clients the truth directly. He also offers a free guide that covers 9 common beliefs that keep women stuck in an affair, plus tools to walk away. His materials also include a webinar and a program called Stop the Spiral.
Background and qualifications
Joan lived through an affair with a married man and believed he would never find that kind of love again. A life coach helped his leave it behind and build a new life. He then chose to train as a coach so he could help other women in the same spot. He is a double certified life coach, through The Life Coach School and the Life Mastery Institute. He now runs Discreet Coaching.
Joan Wiseman pricing
Programs and services
- 45 minute consult call
- Private one on one coaching
- Free guide on 9 misleading beliefs
- Break Free webinar
- Stop the Spiral
Joan Wiseman reviews
The CoachVouch take
He coaches only women leaving affairs, and he has been in that situation himself.
Best for women in an affair with a married man who want to leave and rebuild.
Common questions
How much does Joan Wiseman charge?
Coaching with Joan runs $90 to $175 an hour. Message Joan from this page for an exact quote.
What does Joan Wiseman help with?
Joan Wiseman helps with ending an affair with a married man, stopping the wait for him to leave his marriage, breaking the habit of checking for his messages and letting go of the belief that no love will compare.
Is Joan Wiseman certified?
Joan Wiseman lists: Certified Life Coach, The Life Coach School; Certified Life Coach, Life Mastery Institute.
Are Joan Wiseman's coaching calls private?
Yes. Joan does not record calls, and he keeps all sessions private.
How does Joan Wiseman start working with clients?
He begins with a 45 minute consult call. After that he offers private one on one coaching sessions.
How do I contact Joan Wiseman?
Send Joan a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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