Brendan Abb
Intimacy and sexual wellness coach for men
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $160 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Couples and marriage |
| Works with | Men and Professionals |
| Also coaches | Dating coach and Health coach |
| Credentials | Embodied Intimacy and Relationships Coach; Integrated Somatic Trauma Therapy; NLP Master Practitioner; Certified men's coach |
Brendan Abb is a certified men's coach who focuses on sexual wellness and intimacy. He helps men with sexless relationships, mismatched desire, performance anxiety, erectile issues, and compulsive porn use. Many of his clients are high-functioning professionals who feel alone with these problems. He holds an NLP Master Practitioner credential and trained in Integrated Somatic Trauma Therapy. His coaching is private and is not therapy.
What Brendan helps with
Brendan works with men on sex and intimacy problems that they often carry in silence. He helps them understand what is going on and reconnect with their bodies.
- Sexless or low-sex relationships
- Mismatched libido and feeling rejected
- Performance anxiety
- Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
- Numbness or loss of sensation during sex or solo play
- Compulsive porn use and emotional avoidance
- Confusing or overwhelming desires
- Exploring non-monogamy
Who Brendan works with
Brendan coaches men. Many are high-functioning professionals who feel isolated around sex and carry shame, stress, or disconnection. Some are in sexless or low-sex relationships. Others deal with performance worries, porn habits, or desires they find confusing. He also works with individuals exploring non-monogamy.
Background and qualifications
Brendan is a certified men's coach who specializes in sexual wellness and intimacy. He is an Embodied Intimacy and Relationships Coach. He has training in Integrated Somatic Trauma Therapy and is an NLP Master Practitioner. Many of his clients are high-functioning professionals. He describes his coaching as private, direct, and free of moralizing.
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The CoachVouch take
Brendan focuses only on men's sexual wellness and intimacy, with private coaching that is not therapy.
Best for men who want private, non-judgmental coaching on sex, desire, and intimacy.
Common questions
How much does Brendan Abb charge?
Coaching with Brendan runs $80 to $160 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Brendan Abb help with?
Brendan Abb helps with sexless or low-sex relationships, mismatched libido and feeling rejected, performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.
Is Brendan Abb certified?
Brendan Abb lists: Embodied Intimacy and Relationships Coach; Integrated Somatic Trauma Therapy; NLP Master Practitioner; Certified men's coach.
Is Brendan Abb's coaching therapy?
No. His coaching is offered as an alternative to therapy and to self-help alone. It is private and focused on practical support.
Does Brendan work with men in sexless relationships?
Yes. He works with men in sexless or low-sex relationships who feel alone, unwanted, or shut down.
How do I contact Brendan Abb?
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